# 2 but not second place

So i returned home from a three month deployment in October. and being married certain things are bound to happen when you get home i guess. so about two months later i found out my wife is pregnant with our second child first is going to be two around the time the next one is due may 20th to be exact. so i found out on this last Friday that along with our first child the second one is a girl. not saying that its a bad thing but its a huge shot at a mans pride or am i wrong? who knows that's just how i feel.